I am so stressed right now.
I can almost scream at Leigh and it is NOT her fault.
I am just very very stressed I am afraid. Intolerable is more like it.
Leigh's teacher Mr.H doesn't talk to me.
Usually this is how it works, when I got pick up my girl he tells me anything that happened to and with Leigh. He'd usually tell me what she accomplished or what she was having hard time with.. or if she cried etc etc... you get the idea.
These days he doesn't tell me what happened to her.
If I go ask, he runs to other moms. I am like "what the ...?"
So with little information that Leigh gives me, I have to figure out how her day was like.
Today, Leigh ran to him and said goodbye and all he said was bye on the side and kept talking to other people.
I complained before that he doesn't tell me any accomplishments, only things she failed at.
So I asked him if that's how he sees her "The failing child".
After that as if he wants to tell me that he has nothing to say because she did nothing right and only wrong so he has nothing to say.
It's infuriating. I hate this school.
I wish I could change school. I need out.
The only goof thing about of this is that Leigh doesn't understand what is happening.
She just think he is strict.
In Japanese school system, teachers visit the child's home to confirm/check what kind of environment she/he lives in. And also informs anything the teacher noticed about the child at school.
For special class children, teachers stay about and hour to two and talks with the parents about the child and gets to know the child more.
So this teacher will visit too. I don't know how I am going to talk to him with a straight face not throwing daggers at him.
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
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I am so sorry to hear about your situation. One would think the basic qualification of a teacher is caring. It is so sad to learn that a teacher would make distinctions against his/her own students. :.(
So soon? Term has only started a couple weeks right and he has already made the situation so intolerable. What is the rest of the year going to be like? I don't get it. What is he trying to achieve by behaving this way?
Dear Pear, yes it's very disappointing.
I have been in the academic world for a long time, till I was around 26 and I was so very blessed with my teachers and professors... and I see this teacher acting like this to a little girl, I am so very speechless.
Good teachers always have smiles on their faces, always understanding, always has a plan or at least open for one. Not this one I am afraid.
Dear Bonnie,
I am just so utterly broken having to have another year like this. Last year's evil witch was bad, he is bad. Will things ever get better?
Here is negative Pascale talking so please ignore me...
Will try to cheer up.
You are far from negative! The teacher is a jerk and his behavior is totally unprofessional. Unless you take Leigh away there is no way of avoiding this nasty man. I don't understand why he can't be more cooperative and has to make it so hellish for you. What is wrong with this school? They tend to employ teachers lack empathy.
Bonnie, things have worked out a little bit.
He apologized today after school.
Only time will tell how it will really go but at least I feel a little better. (I posted about it)
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